Community Guidelines

Draft. Not yet in effect.

MMour is for men who are ready for something real. These guidelines keep it a place where people can be themselves and take dating seriously. Breaking them can get content removed or an account suspended.

Be real

Use recent photos of you, and only you, with your face clearly visible in at least one.
Be honest about your age, your relationship goals and who you are.
One person, one account.

Be respectful

No harassment, bullying, threats or hate, including about race, ethnicity, religion, disability, body type, HIV status, gender identity or how out someone is.
Take "no" for an answer. If someone doesn't reply or unmatches, let it go.
Never share someone's photos, messages or personal details outside MMour, and never out anyone.

Keep it right for MMour

No nudity or sexual content in photos, prompts or messages.
MMour isn't for hookups. Don't solicit sex.
No selling, advertising, recruiting, or asking for money.
No illegal activity, and nothing involving anyone under 18.

If something's wrong

Use Report or block on any profile or conversation. Reports are anonymous: the person isn't told who reported them. You also won't see each other again. If you are in immediate danger, call 911 first.

Safety tips

Take your time. Get to know someone on MMour before moving to other apps or sharing your number.
Protect your privacy. Don't share your address, workplace details or financial information early on. Be careful with photos you send.
Never send money or gift cards to someone you've met online, whatever the story.
Video chat first to make sure he's who he says he is.
Meet in public, somewhere busy, and get there and back on your own.
Tell a friend where you're going and who you're meeting.
Trust your instincts. You can leave at any time, and you can always report.

Some people use dating apps to target gay and bi men. Be especially careful if someone pressures you to meet somewhere private quickly, avoids video calls, or asks about your finances or how out you are.